Thursday, June 13, 2013

A WOLF IN SHEEP'S CLOTHING

He was handsome, spanish, muscular, tall etc. He is the type that all girls will go crazy for. They both hit of quickly and exchanged numbers. Winter break was over for Madeline and her friend so they went back to campus. Madeline and her new friend will talk constantly it was quite an adventure she told me. He then asked her out to dinner with his family , she had no idea he would ask her to be his girlfriend. And so it happened. She put on her best outfit,make up and did her hair all to impress him and his family. She was very excited. All she thought was that she had finally found someone who cared and loved her. Someone who finally took time to care for her. That was the night they had become an official couple. They loved being with eachother every minute til one day....It was a spring night and she had invited him over with his friends to her dorm room to have a hangout. She received a phone call from a highschool friend who at that time was one of her closets friends. She had mentioned this to her boyfriend before they began dating because her close friend is a guy and she knew it was a problem for many guys, but he seemed cool with it. She didnt make it to her phone to pick it up and her boyfriend went crazy asking why she didnt pick it up as if she were to hide something. But she wasnt hiding anything there was nothing to be hidden. And that is when his true colors began showing. He slapped her across the face because he thought she was having an affair behind his back. Hours passed by she still couldnt believe he had done that to her, She always remembered her mothers words "when a guy hits you once, he will do it again no matter if he had said sorry or not". But she just ignored it. Just like her mother said...he apologized and gave her a kiss but things changed from that day on. He became extremely jealous and over protective. He didnt allow her to go out , talk to her friends, wear certain things. He became her master. She had no idea what she had gotten herself into and couldnt get out. It was fight after fight. Blood, bruises, yelling everything you can imagine happened. But she didnt have the strength to get out. It was as if there was something holding her and not letting her go. He would beat her up so bad she couldnt move at times. All she thought was why is this happening to her. She couldnt explain it. She always asked her self why is God letting this happen?. After one day after he beat her up he forced to have sex with her. While that was happening tears were pouring out of her eyes. She just wanted to run, she felt disgusting like she was worth nothing. She didnt want to live anymore. She yelled "help" but no one wanted to help her. Her neighbors knew what he was doing and were scared to come in. She was so skinny and so weak she told me she had no strength in her. Her first year finished of college and time to go back home. She saw it as her way to escape from him but it wasnt that easy. She got home and it was like as if she couldnt have peace anywhere she went. It was constant fights with her mother now. They both bumped heads alot and it was terrible. They never understood eachother and one day Madeline decided she couldnt take it anymore. She packed her things and guess where she went. Yup, she went back to her ex-boyfriend. I couldnt believe how can she be so naive. This time he didnt abuse her physically now it was a different type of abuse. Verbal, mentally and emotionally. She was his slave. She had to wash his cloths, cook  and clean for him. And when he wanted to have sex she had to do it even if she didnt want to. Although she was his girlfriend, he had many behind her back. this was happening for months til one day she went back home. This time she had to go away and never look back. And so she did, She went back home and wrote an email to him telling him it was over. Til that day she hasnt seen him since. she felt like a load got off her. She was now free  well thats what she thought. She didnt know there was more trouble her way.......